“Change is inevitable, growth is intentional.”
—Glenda Cloud

When things fall apart, it can be seen as a test and also can be seen as a form of healing. But it is not always a test that you either pass or fail. Sometimes it is just observing how things can come together and how they also can fall apart. The healing happens when you release control of the situation and allow for these things to happen as they need to. You also allow for the necessary emotions to come and most importantly go as they need to; be it grief, joy, love, anger, whatever.

The reality is we may not truly ever know how situations are going go. Something we believe will bring us great joy may bring us great sorrow. Something we feel will bring only grief and misery may actually bring joy and pleasure. Sometimes we think we’re at the end of it all but it turns out we are at the beginning of something else.

The reality is that change is inevitable and life teaches us that things are always in transition. When things seemingly fall apart, other things are being built up. Experience each situation that life gives you to its fullest and then keep on moving to the next moment in the now and intentionally grow into you.

“The divine flow is like the flow of a river, however many rivers nowadays are polluted, full of junk or simply stagnating. It is time to take care of them - meaning it is time to take care of our emotional bodies and to look at them as rivers, where stuff got thrown in over the years. For some, there is so much built up, that it works like a big dam which does not allow any flow of energy. You can easily recognize the flow of energy, by looking at how much love is flowing in your life, how much happiness, how much time do you have available, how much money is flowing etc.”
— Quantum Angel

It may be time to ask yourself how polluted is your river of emotions? Has there been some junk and pollution thrown in there when you weren’t paying attention? Are my emotions contaminated and perhaps poisoning others that come in contact with them?

One quick way to figure out the answers is to look at how much discomfort or pain you have in your life. Is it all the time, only in certain situations, only dealing with certain people? We are like our planet, and over the years of use and misuse the environment now needs our protection.

Science shows us that we do release chemicals in response to our emotions. Over time, if these chemicals are not cleared out, they build up and can become toxic to us. So take action and break down the dams that are restricting the flow of energy in your emotional river and get the vitality of living back on track.

“I pray that I may never meddle, interfere, dictate, and give advice that is not wanted, or assist when my services are not needed. If I can help people, I’ll do it by giving them a chance to help themselves and if I can uplift or inspire, let it be by example, inference and suggestion, rather than by injunction and dictation. That is to say, I desire to be Radiant, to Radiate Life!”
— Elbert Hubbard

It’s not easy to have the desire to help others and have the person needing help not want it or accept it. When I see someone suffering needlessly, I really want to reach out and help because I know I can help.

A good friend of mine who is a healer has a saying that he lives by, “No willing, no healing”. We may want to help, but if the other person is not willing to accept the help, the situation will not improve — despite all our best efforts and intentions.

The best way to help others is to give them a chance to help themselves and be there if they ask you to be there for them. We are not here to change the world by force. We are here to change the world by love, tolerance, respect, and compassion. And that can be done by living a life worthy of inspiring others and leading by example. That is living a radiant life.

I’m very happy to announce that my good friend, Moses, has been involved with a new video that is being produced as I write this called “The Cure” which covers the ancient art of energy healing and self-healing techniques.