“It is wise to direct your anger towards problems — not people; to focus your energies on answers — not excuses.”
— William Arthur Ward

Sometimes the saying, “Old habits are hard to break” is truer than you can or want to believe. You promised yourself that you were going to change your ways, not fall into the same traps. But here it comes again and you just can’t seem to stop it from happening.

Give yourself a break. We all know that it’s not easy to change. Especially when you have been doing something one way for so long — for some it might even be a lifetime. Coming down on yourself with blame and self-loathing will not help the situation, and will more likely reinforce whatever negative, fear-based pattern you were trying to change in the first place.

When this happens, it is important that you recognize the old patterns. Catch yourself, even in mid-flight. Then do something new. Do not let it continue or end like it always did before. Throw yourself a curve and before long your habits won’t know what to expect the next time they try to creep up into your life.

“The impulses of energy and information that create our life experiences are reflected in our attitudes toward life. And our attitudes are an outcome of and expressions of self-engendered impulses of energy and information.”
— Deepak Chopra

We live in a matrix of energy that influences our lives and that is influenced by our lives. What does this mean? It means that everything that is happening to us, we are making these events happen. We are creating these experiences of joy and sorrow, of success and failure, of wealth and poverty.

Take this concept one step further: We can shift this energy to our favor. The more we become aware of this power to influence the energies and vibrational flows in our life, the more likely that our attitude and behaviour will change along with it. The results may not occur overnight, but will inevitably manifest over time.

We have the power within us to create our life exactly as we choose. Begin to understand this today and you are well on your way to making some real life changes and a world shift.