“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you.

The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won’t succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.”
— Wayne Dyer

Often blame is a convenient way to distract oneself from looking at the root of the situations at hand. However, it also tends to make a victim of yourself by placing your life in the hands of others.

Take control of your life and your emotions by granting forgiveness to those that have hurt you. Focus on understanding the lesson that may have come with that challenging situation. This will allow you to truly change your life and your life circumstances.